2 girls with the meaning of love

Recently, I went drinking with 2 girls and from them I try to understand back the meaning of love - one with a boyfriend and never lack of guys around her, one never have one boyfriend till date. Love... somthing I thought I understand all these years... but frankly speaking I have no idea what does it mean at all for the past 3 years.... I only know at the present moment I'm tired... tired of everything...

I asked the one with a boyfriend, if your boyfriend asked you to marry him will you say yes? She said: Yes, she will coz she is tired. Tired? She said she is tired of starting all over again, tired of going through the dating game, plus he has all the factors- stable income, stable job, etc.

I asked the one without a boyfriend and she said she is tired.... tired? Although friends are around, but they can never fill the emotional emptiness- to have someone to dope on you, someone that you like to do the things together, etc.

So what is the meaning of love? "tired, thats why look for love?"; "Tired, thats why stay for love?" I'm still searching for the answer... none of my friends around me told the reason for love that I was looking for, that I believe in.... so that kind of love I'm looking for does not exist? I have no idea....

每個人在對方離開時 總是才知道會那種感覺多難過
而每個人在離開別人時 也從來不會知道對方多難過
每個人總是容易痛恨對方的無情
每個人總是容易忘了自己的無情